How to make the best grilled cheese

I try and not eat dairy, because it does things in my gastric tract that produce what probably border on crimes against humanity, and at least in my mind, spousal abuse, so I try to limit it. That being said, this weekend I had a major hankering for a delicious grilled cheese, and if I’m going to do it, I’m going to over do it. Just like this:

I found this video here, watched more of their videos.